You can learn "How to Create Empowered Relationships"
Whether you are single or in a relationship this program is for you if you are looking to gain awareness and heal the patterns that are moving you away from being present in your relationships.
Romantic - Work - Friendship - Family - Self
If you are looking for a way to empower yourself and the important people in your life, then this course is for you!
Have you ever felt rejected or abandoned?
Are you sometimes unable to connect with someone at a deeper level?
Have you ever found it difficult to set boundaries of mutual love and respect?
Are you sometimes afraid to love and/or be loved?
What constitutes a relationship?
The answer to this question differs
depending on who you ask. The key word here is "connection". When two or more people are connected
physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually, you could say that these people
are in a relationship.
The first mistake that a lot of us make is to believe that as soon as we leave the single life behind us, that all our worries and problems will disappear as we enter into a relationship with the ‘superhero’ or ‘super-heroine’ that we have chosen as a partner. Suddenly, it becomes his or her duty to make us happy, to love us, or to fulfill all of our needs. What we forget is that our partner, our loved one, has the exact same preconceived vision of the ideal relationship as we do – including the same dreams and expectations of us!
An empowered relationship is created by empowered individuals. To be empowered means that you are in complete acceptance of who you are. You can recognize the duality of your being, and you can take ownership of your feelings, actions and beliefs. So the key concept is ‘Connection with Awareness’.
In an empowered relationship, "I learn to love myself more through the experience of being with you.” When we do this, we live in the moment and can take full advantages of the endless possibilities that life has to offer.
Healing the Spiritual Wounds
. The spiritual
energy of LOVE creates loving thoughts which create loving feelings which
create loving actions. If we look at love as only a feeling or a thought or an action,
we won’t be able to heal the spiritual
Let’s just imagine that when we
first come into this world, when we are
just little babies, we are 100% LOVE. As we grow
older, someone may have tell us ‘You are bad’ or ‘You are ugly’, and suddenly that
state of 100% LOVE changed to 80% LOVE with 20% LACK of LOVE. So life goes on and things happened,
and we keep changing our beliefs about ourselves, and
eventually we come to believe that we are
only 40% LOVE and 60% LACK of LOVE.
These spiritual wounds create thoughts. The thoughts create feelings and emotions. The emotions create a physical manifestation of the wound. That’s why sometimes we can heal the way we think or our emotional state, but unless we look at the spiritual wound itself, that energy will still be active and play itself out in our lives. This wound then becomes a very powerful force in our lives until we can accept its existence, take responsibility for it, learn the lesson it’s teaching us, make peace with ourselves and ultimately return to LOVE.
The 4 Major Wounds
The spiritual wound of rejection occurs when we perceive that our love is not wanted or that the love that we need is not available.
This can take many forms depending on our own experience.
When we mistake the source of love as being in
someone else, if that person then rejects us, we feel empty and unloved.
In a case like this, both people have mistaken the real source of love by looking for love in the other person.
So where is the true source of love? Within YOU!
The only way to heal this wound is to look within and learn to see yourself as the limitless source of love that you are.
The spiritual wound of control has to do with the misuse of power.
We identify it when we perceive that power is being taken away from us or when we feel a need to overpower the other person.
When two people come together and play out this wound, one will control (active), and the other one will feel controlled (passive).
In essence, both people are searching for freedom. But freedom cannot be given to you nor can it be taken away from you, since you are FREEDOM.
The spiritual wound of fear occurs when we distrust the flow of life, when we distrust ourselves.
When two people come together and play out this wound, one distrusts (active), and the other feels distrusted (passive).
The wound of fear means that both people are looking for trust outside of themselves. But trust only happens within.
The spiritual wound of separation occurs when we perceive ourselves as disconnected from ourselves and others.
When two people come together and play out this wound, there are feelings of being alone and isolated. One person withdraws (active), and the other becomes clingy and suffocating (passive).
The wound of separation means that both people are looking for UNION outside themselves. When we connect with all aspects of ourselves, we realize that UNION happens within and that, in truth, we were never separate.
How to create an Empowered Relationship
1.- Accept Uniqueness.
Learn to love and appreciate the way your partner shows their love. Don’t expect that everyone should show love the same way you do.
See what your partner is doing for you, instead of focusing on what he/she is not doing.
Move away from blaming and realize that any given situation has been created by both.
The more you love and accept yourself the more you’ll be able to create a loving relationship.
As we explore the polarities of giving and/or receiving love we embody LOVE. Learn to love yourself through your partner.
Learn to create empowered physical, emotional, mental & spiritual boundaries.
Become aware of the mayor wounds played out in the relationship and establish the higher truths:
The Messages we Learn from our Wounds
Reviews from previous participants.
"The Empowered Relationship course is essential to anyone who is on the path to self discovery and improvement. I've learned so much about myself and changed completely on the inside. This course is guaranteed to bring major shifts and help you bust those unhelpful patterns that you want rid of! In the group setting, it is easy to share and which enables us to learn even more about ourselves. Maria is very intuitive and knowledgeable and the combination of these makes the course individual to each persons needs. If you want to self improvement and to have better relationships then this is the course to do - it does exactly what it says on the tin - you will be empowered :)
I could go on.. and on ... and on and tell loads of stories of the difference it has made but I guess it won't fit on your webpage :)"
"Doing the empowered relationship course has changed all my relationships in ways I couldn't have imagined, family, friends and colleagues have commented on the positive change in me. We bring real life challenges to the workshops, if you're open to learning there are always light bulb moments. Life itself brings you the lessons but doing this course with Maria Jesus has brought so much clarity. Maria's insight into our core issues is both frightening and enlightening. I now see 'challenges' and conflicts as key to being the best that I can and loving myself more. We cannot give what we don't have."
"I met Maria when i was in a really dark place. It was just after a terrible fight with my best friend that resulted in her leaving the house we rented. She has been one of the closest people i knew for the last 20 years .After this fight the relationship ceased and i felt like i lost a family member. My partner moved in and instead of 'happily ever after' we started fighting,we fought endlessly. I was exhausted. He was exhausted
We were playing 'i will leave you game' all the time I felt lost, insecure, I didn`t have anyone close to talk to. I didn`t see a way out.
I met Maria on one of the meet-ups and instantly connected with what she was saying. Meeting her was like a light in a tunnel. I understood that happiness lays inside not outside. I understand that the relationship i need to work on first is the relationship with myself.
Once i started to love and respect myself all other relationships changed.
I found a way to talk with my friend and even though the friendship is not the same as it used to be i know that when i really need her i can count on her and when she needs me she can count on me.
It is a process a lifelong process. I learn how to deal with my emotions and do not take in my partner emotions. I learn to give myself & others little gifts everyday for instance flowers or kindness, I think i am becoming a better person. Each conversation brings me closer to the real me
Thank you Maria
You are the light :)"
Monika, 33 living in Dublin, Ireland